A GUIDE FOR PARENTS TO HELP THEIR CHILDREN
GET THE MOST OF OF THEIR PRACTICE SESSIONS
Children need Positive Encouragement, Attention, and Feedback
Here is a list of things that can be done
to encourage children to practice.
1.) Always encourage and keep things positive.
2.) Instead of saying, “It’s practice time,” you could say something like,
“Can you play that song for me that I love so much!!”
3.) When a student complains about practicing, try not to argue with the student.
Just be firm and say, “we’ll after you do each assignment and
make a check by it, then you can (choose a reward) watch TV, have
a snack, go out and play, etc)
4.) A working parent can create a sticker chart on the calendar. If
the student checks off all the songs she/he practiced in
assignment book, he/she chooses a sticker to put on the
calendar. When the student practices for at least 5 days out of the
week, he/she gets a reward. (maybe going for ice cream, etc).
5.) For younger children (ages 4-8) it may work better to have them
practice for 10 to 15 minutes, 2 times a day, instead of sitting
at the piano for 30 minutes.
It’s not unusual for parents to become discouraged when they do not see
their children practicing or progressing on the piano. Here are a few
helpful tips:
Remember that children pick up on negativity or nagging. Nagging or
arguing with a child simply creates a power struggle and neither parent
or child get anywhere. The child usually will end up hating the
piano.
THE BEST THING TO DO FOR YOUR CHILD IS TO STAY POSITIVE, POSTITIVE, POSITIVE. I can’t say this enough!
When students say negative things like, “It’s too hard.” Or “I hate
piano.” Here are some sample responses that could help to encourage
the child.
aIt may be challenging, but I know you can do it because you’re smart.
Well, let me hear you play it, I bet it’s easier than you think!!
Is it really that hard? What part is hard about it? I want to hear the whole song
Can you sing the words to me?
I bet you can play 5 songs in a row and sing them.
Children always feel so good when they are complimented and when they
know that parents are interested in their progress. They do anything
to please. It takes conscience effort to keep the encouragement going,
but it does work!!
Here’s my one tip to encourage parents:
There will always be good weeks as well as bad weeks, and if you expect
other than this, you may be disappointed. If you ever have questions or
concerns about helping to encourage your child, please call me. Again,
thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to teach your children!
Jennifer Wilson
209.404.3269